Divorce is one of the major problems facings family today. Divorce is is granted in the court for many reasons such as cruelty, desertion, adultery, neglect to provide, conviction crime, etc.
SOME COMMON QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS ABOUT DIVORCE.
1. How long is a marriage contract ?
The answer is , marriage is suppose till death break. in spiritual , God perform miracle when He make two individuals to become one person. This mean is only God that is permitted to break the union by taken one of the partner in death.
2. Why should people avoid divorce like a plague?
a) Divorce represents a tragedy that has undermined the home, the very basic of society .
b) Misery always follows in its path, broken homes, bruised and broken hearts, bewildered, homeless children, delinquent youth, loneliness, tears and at time suicide or insanity.
c) The couple should consider the welfare of their kids who would be mostly affected and the same connected with divorce and the scandal that it engenders.
d) Economic disaster often follows divorce and it is the cause of lack of happiness in marriage.
MY COUNSEL FOR PARTNERS IN A SHAKY MARRIAGE
Let both of you (husband and wife) solemnly renew their vow " for better or for worse till death do us part". Let each of you get right with the Lord and then with one another. Confession and repentance with mutual sharing would make any marriage a success. You should both spent time in praying together as a couple. To the wife, let the husband be the actual head of the home and not merely figurehead. You wives should be subject to your husbands. Let husbands and wives continually woo each other because each needs a great deal of affection.
Their must be mutual respect for each other.
Both husband and wife must be able to Identity the negative counsel, which may ruin the marriage, because such counsel can ruin your marriage.
Lastly, never starves your partner sex. Issue of sex is important issue in a marriage, many marriage has collapse because of sex.
Never allow sex to be a factor in your marriage. Study your partner and know when he or she need sex, even when you are not in mood never reject sex.
If you are not enjoying he or she sex performance, pls let him or her know, you can both find solution and this will make your home stronger .
Never keep secret, remember you are ONE. Let your partner know all things
about you.
Lastly. Prayer is the key.
